Show and Tell – April 27th, 2009
Posted by Mr. ShelbyApr 27
I feel like my blog is official now! This is my first entry into Mel’s Show and Tell and I’m excited to share this with you.
For my first show and tell, I think I’m just going to make it a generic post about my favorite things. There’s so much to share that I don’t want to focus on one area just yet! These items are very special to me. No matter what is going on with regards to infertility, life, or just being a worry wort, I can close my eyes, reflect on what I was doing at the time these pictures were taken and for just a few moments be transported back to that event.
1.) Napa, California
As I eluded to in a previous post, going to Napa, CA is one of my very favorite things to do. There’s something about the smell of grapes in the air, rolling fields of the vines, and, well the wine, that makes everything seem “okay.” A trip up to Napa is something that Shelby and I do often. We’ve been known to go once a week for a month at a time, that is until our pocket book becomes empty. This is a picture Shelby snapped of some grapes that I think is a beautiful representation of Napa. The second is some old stairs at one of our favorite wineries.
2.) Hawaiian & Cows
A few summers ago, Shelby and I took a 14 day cruise to Hawaii. She has never been, and the last time I was there was many years ago (I think I was 10). The only thing I remembered about it was learning how to do the Hula amidst a “couple’s only invitation.” All I knew was that a bunch of people were going up on stage, and dammit, I wanted to be one of them. Anyway, this trip was amazing. We snorkeled, roamed the shops of Honolulu, was introduced to afagato gellato (the best thing ever, a scoop of gellato with a short of espresso poured on it), scooter-ing around Kauai, and stumbled apon a local watering hole/waterfall that was featured in playboy in the 80′s. Alas, there were no naked, hairy arm pit laides when we went there, but it was perfect none-the-less. We found a few cows on the side of the road when and had to pull over and take a picture. This guy is my favorite Hawaiian cow, followed by a picture of the hidden water hole.
3.) Oak Trees
I love oak trees. There is something old, wise, and majestic about them. This is a mighty tree on the hill just past my parents backyard. As a kid, I’d run up the hill and spend hours sitting by this tree. It was my place, special to only me. To me, this tree represents a safe place, my childhood, and tells my story.
4.) Shelby
I’ve saved the best for last. I do not have the words to describe what this woman means to me, except that she is my world and I love her more than any words I could think to say. They simply cannot do justice to a woman that has made me whole.







After 5 years, we still walk the path of infertility. 7 IUI's, 1 miscarriage, 1 IVF and tens of thousands of dollars later we find ourselves pregnant. The path is still not clear, but we take it one step at a time.



22 comments
Comment by Victoria on April 27, 2009 at 10:40 am
Very sweet – Mrs. Shelby is very lucky to have such a loving hubby! I also love Hawaii and someday we will retire there. (My DH is working on those plans as we speak!)
Comment by Tarah on April 27, 2009 at 12:12 pm
Love your show and tell. Never been to Hawaii, but I would love to go someday. Your wife is beautiful
Comment by Serendipity on April 27, 2009 at 12:36 pm
your Mrs is absolutely adorable, I just love the way you speak about her.
Comment by Malky B. on April 27, 2009 at 12:37 pm
Looks like you guys had a nice vacation. I’ve never been to Hawaii but would love to go someday. Your wife’s very pretty.
Always nice to find a man blogging about infertility. Not enough of you guys out there. Congrats on this pregnancy. May things go smoothly.
Comment by Nina on April 27, 2009 at 12:40 pm
Great pictures! Shelby is cute! You guys look like you’re having fun.
Comment by sunflowerchilde on April 27, 2009 at 1:02 pm
You are so sweet! You guys seem like a perfect couple. My husband and I go to Napa a lot, too, but more for biking than wine-tasting because the wineries are so crowded and expensive. Have you tried Healdsburg? It’s beautiful and a bit calmer.
Comment by Heather R. on April 27, 2009 at 1:04 pm
Dang! You guys are one HOT couple! Never been able to travel to any cool places.
Comment by Kristin on April 27, 2009 at 1:24 pm
What a wonderful tribute to your wife and the beautiful places you have been.
~ICLW
Comment by Murgdan on April 27, 2009 at 2:31 pm
Awwww…what a great group of favorite things!
…and now you made me miss wine again. (*it’s for a good cause, it’s for a good cause*).
Comment by Clare on April 27, 2009 at 4:06 pm
Wow your wife is stunning! So great to see a couple, who despite going through all the IF hardships and heartaches, are still loved up. That’s the key to getting through this. Lovely pics, great post.
Comment by c lo on April 27, 2009 at 4:58 pm
aw!
You know, I live in Sacramento and I have NEVER been to Napa? I think you just inspired me to get my rear in gear and go.
Comment by Shelby on April 27, 2009 at 5:04 pm
You’re such a sweetheart, especially since you put up my pre-treatment, pre-pregnancy and pre-loss ‘skinny’ pics, haha. You all can just continue believing I am that size (and not 30 pounds heavier!!).
But still, luckily I too love cows, Hawaii, and wine (hence the extra 30 pounds). We are definitely in sync. Seeing as how I am not getting my fill of 2/3, I guess I’ll settle for some McD’s fries.
By the way, I challenge anyone to end up as pasty white as I was in Hawaii!
Comment by Baby Smiling In Back Seat on April 27, 2009 at 5:44 pm
You and Shelby might have to duke it out in future Show and Tells if you both want to post about the same topic! But this week I think you’re pretty safe and she won’t be posting about her love of herself.
The pictures of her on her blog haven’t done her justice! You’ve got quite a hottie.
Comment by Betsy on April 27, 2009 at 6:06 pm
I love this! Great pictures, and stories, too. Is the oak tree still standing? I have trees like that, now unfortunately they are a parking lot…
Lucky me, I live and work in your first topic. So, don’t feel bad about weekly wine tasting…we go daily!!!
Comment by scrambled eggs on April 27, 2009 at 6:16 pm
What a fun life you guys lead! Love the pictures!
Comment by Erica on April 27, 2009 at 6:57 pm
My mother raves about Napa. We went to Hawaii for the first time in 2008 for a family wedding. My BIL and cousin both live in Hawaii!
I love Oak trees- any old and glorious trees and beautiful. I grew up with a huge yard full of huge trees.
Your wife is gorgeous. That’s great that you are the author of the blog!
ICLW
Comment by Mr. Shelby on April 27, 2009 at 7:39 pm
Thankfully, the tree still stands! The area behind my parents house is not marked for residential zoning!
Comment by luna on April 27, 2009 at 10:46 pm
what a great show and tell! I love #3 — what an awesome spot for a kid. we’re planning to paint an oak tree mural on our baby’s wall and make it like a tree of life… so much beauty and symbolism.
and #4 is just too sweet! what a lovely couple you two (soon to be 3) are!
Comment by WiseGuy on April 27, 2009 at 11:03 pm
Nice swing into the Show and Tell!!!
Yes, Mrs, Shelby is beautiful….I am wishing you long years of love, intimacy and companionship!!!
Comment by Mrs. Gamgee on April 28, 2009 at 9:02 am
Welcome to the wonderful world of Show & Tell! Your pictures are beautiful!
Comment by Beautiful Mess on April 28, 2009 at 9:50 am
Welcome to Show and Tell! Great photos, thank you for sharing a few of your favorites with us.
Comment by Jill on April 28, 2009 at 11:23 am
I’ve always wanted to visit Napa and Hawaii! beautiful pictures, thanks for sharing
iclw